You were not designed to live in someone else’s interpretation of what your present should be, or to work towards building someone else's interpretation of what your future ought to look like. You were designed to live in your present, and to work towards building your future. The present, and the future, that you want. The future that fits you perfectly; that meshes with who you are; that puts a smile in your soul.
But, if you are to live in the future that you want, you need to build it.
No—one else can be the architect of your future. And nor should you want them to be. Other people may help you to build that future, but you set the parameters, you lay out the blueprint. You control the build froom start to finish.
To design, and control, the shape and the building of your future, you need to have a strong foundation in place. And, once you have that foundation, you can truly step into all that your adventure has in store.
Would you run a marathon, climb a mountain or take a test without at least some preparation? Of course you wouldn’t. Not if you wanted it to go well, anyway. So why would you approach your future any differently? Why would you set off into your adventure without some preparation to equip you for each step you need to take, each stage that you need to negotiate?
You wouldn't. Or, at least, you shouldn't.
And that's where we come in. When it comes to helping people build the life they were made for - their reallife - we are tried, tested and proven. Everything we do is designed to equip you for the adventure ahead of you.
Over the years, you have constructed many different versions of you. The you that your parents, friends, partner, teachers, bosses, or your 'whoever', wanted you to be.
And you tried hard - very hard - to be all those versions of you that other people wanted you to be.
You put what other people wanted from you ahead of what you wanted from you.
Because to focus on what you wanted would have been selfish.
So you sacrificed the version of you that you wanted to be - that you were meant to be - in order that the people around you could have the version of you that they wanted.
That may sound like a contradiction, especially in a world where you are told to always think of others - to give time, and money, to this cause, and that. But it isn't.
It isn't selfish to spend time, and maybe even money, in understanding who you really are, and then taking steps to become that person. To invest in becoming the best that you can be.
To build the real you.
You try to be the son, daughter, brother, sister, partner, employee, friend, student, husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend - the whatever - that other people want you to be.
You focus on making other people happy. You devote time, energy, even money, to that aim.
But it never quite works out. You always seem to come up short. You always seem to let people down.
You see, it never quite works out, you always come up short, and you always seem to let people down, for one simple reason: you were not designed to be someone else's version of you.
When you allow yourself to be the best version of you - to become who you are really meant to be - to live the life that you are truly made to live - you automatically become the best son, daughter, employee, brother, friend - whatever - that you can be.
The best version of you cannot fail to be anything other than the best of each of those things. And then, far from coming up short, or letting people down, you unleash your potential, and you enrich the lives of everyone who brushes against you.
And that's why there is only one version of you that matters.
And that's why it is not selfish to spend time, effort, even money, on becoming that person.
Stop living an interpretation of your life and live the real thing. Stop being someone else's version of who you are, and become the real deal.
You need to know, though, that just like building anything, buiding the real you takes effort. It demands commitment. It requires investment - time, energy, and, yes, sometimes even money.
But, without that investment, you will never step into the adventure that is the big life you were made to live.
From a range of courses covering the practical building blocks that you need to become the person you are meant to be, and to live the life you were made to live, to webinars and seminars, to fully-tailored one-to-one coaching, we have what you need to step into your adventure, and take control of your future.
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